inner thoughts
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DEEP THOUGHTS: WHAT’S MUTUAL
Even in the most casual relationships, what’s mutually beneficial can become staid. As a companion, my client relationships have been more exciting than some of the guys I have casually dated. One man recently reached out to me, just yesterday in fact. In the context of those Whatsapp messages was a great deal of ambivalence. In its bests form, ambivalence can be a catalyst for passion, in its worst, apathy. Comme ci. Comme ca. It’s always better to be more. What do you think? Listen in.
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DISCOVERING COMMUNICATION UTOPIA
I know you love my sexy notes, but on a Tuesday I wanted to share some of my thoughts on bettering communication. As a companion, I strive for the utopia of intimacy. I understand that it not only takes time but the willingness to truly be open, not just to yourself but to other person’s communication cues, which are often more subtle than we would like. In our effort to create connection, sometimes we get so caught up in the mission we forget about the participants. That delicious physical intimacy and passion we crave can only thrive in the intellectual stimulation of open dialogue. Whether it is our first meeting…
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WAVES OF NOSTALGIA: INNER THOUGHTS
You never know when its going to hit you; the waves of nostalgia. The memories that shape our lives: good, bad, ugly or indifferent. It happened to me recently.
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POWER OF THE TEXTILE
Raw fabric. The energy it engages to create a wearable story. A story that ends with the tender intimacy that only two vulnerable and open people can deliver…
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TRUE CONFESSION: THE PHONE CALL
It was one phone call. We have all been there are some point, haven’t we?
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C’EST SIMPLE
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PETITE FRIDAY THOUGHTS: FINALLY
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SATURDAY SEX: WHEN YOU CAN’T SLEEP
For when you can’t sleep. I’m in your dreams…
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FIRE IN THE ORGANS
“The heart is an organ of fire.” Michael Ondaatje, The English Patient Bringing you hump day message, on the day before my birthday!
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DEFINING THE EMPHASIS
“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that’s all.” Oscar Wilde I will be turning another year old in less than a week. Does having expectation keep us from really living? There is so much truth in Oscar Wilde’s words. How many times do we ask ourselves,” where did the time go?” That feels like existence to me. I have said it. I want this next year to be about living. To live doesn’t mean you have to go to extremes. Slow your pace for what’s important. Take in your every day with a difference pair of eyes, ears and mouth. The change in mental…
