Sometimes I feel v. introspective. It happens from time to time. I want to give all that I have but know that if I don’t protect myself and draw lines, who will be there to protect me? After going through a divorce, the sudden death of a lover, and evolving into a power exchange lifestyle and back again, my emotional intelligence has evolved quite a bit. As a woman of great faith, I believe in giving because it is a good thing not because I ever expect something back. This was how I was raised. Yet, I am not infallible. There are times when I feel emotionally spent. There are times when…