intimacy
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AFTERNOON DELIGHT: SECRETS BETWEEN THE SHOULDER BLADES
The place where your fingers run, lightly scratching the place that drives me just a little crazy. You found my spot. I have a few but exploration and discovery are what matters most. This is the place where I melt, just a little. I try not to distract myself because as your hands glide over my sweet spot, my head is buried between your thighs. My body is relaxed, preparing itself for what is next and then what happens after that. There is no rush. The journey we are on is a longer and curvier road. It’s amazing when you find that ordinary, non-sexual spot that can change your body…
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AFTER CARE: A CRITICAL PART OF INTIMACY
I recently spent time with someone who made me revisit my feelings on aftercare. While it is often just talked about in kink circles, aftercare is a necessary and critical part of any intimate situation. Listen to learn more… Update: Since the posting of this audio note, I had several wonderfully open conversations with the gentleman who inspired this post. It seems obvious, but it was quite helpful to share our concerns and feedback, which ultimately created a delicious new intimacy.
