PROOF OF GROWTH & CONNECTION
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LANGUAGE OF LUST
There is a always a moment when words turn into action. Where the eyes lock, the head tilts and body temperature rises. Two mouths draw close, so close and the tongue stands on attention. The Kiss. A Beginning and End. Charm my brain. The anticipation of your head so close to mine that I can see the microscopic pores on your nose. A lyrical conversation between two bodies. Vulnerability on display, an out of body experience, that catalyzes courage, daring you to make the next move. It is the greeting, good-bye; writing the prologue and epilogue of our story. These beautiful moments of intimacy that create the story, transforming strangers…
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THE LIBERATED SOUL
His mind is brilliant, devouring information instantaneously but not without careful thought. In business he is not to be underestimated, and in some cases even feared. His charisma is like the wind, pushing you gently, in many forms, sometimes its gale force and other times just a light breeze. It always feels refreshing. I believe that similar to a woman, a man has his secrets but guards them closely, slower to reveal, if he ever does. This is one of the most beautiful things about him. The wonder of him. When Opportunity Knocks. When he gives you an opening, take it and appreciate it. It is rare to have the…
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VIRTUE SIGNAL
“The Truth Shall Set You Free.” A Biblical quote from the book of John. I love the simplicity and the purity of such words that have such intricacy to them. There is so much meat on the bone of this simple sentence. Interpretations waiting to be realized and savored. Virtue, by definition, means moral excellence or righteousness. Righteousness is altruistic. Self-righteousness is ego-driven. Yet, I would argue that the modern definition’s motivation at least, lies in the power of judgement. I believe human beings are inherently good. However, in a world of constant signaling, the wires of virtue get easily crossed. Good people make bad choices. Yes, human beings are…
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TIGHTENED BLOSSOMS
Given equal circumstances, what is better a flower that remains tight in the petals, believing in longevity or the flower that blooms right away, knowing its petals may fall sooner? Every Rose Has It’s Thorn. Yes, I have to reference that famous Poison song. The juxtaposition of a bloom. Strength and delicacy. Vulnerability. Love, nutrients and light. The simple that living things need to flourish. A tightened blossom is resistance. A push back to what is natural in nature. What is needed. Yet for some, the need for control reigns supreme. This false send of power is not only engrained in our psyche but more importantly, in our culture. The…
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BLOOD, SWEAT AND TEARS
The blood pumping through our bodies has the same level of sodium as the sea; dark and rich in nutrients, keeping us buoyant, yet ready to poison us if we drink it. There is a connection to this nature that is inescapable; the salty ocean air permeating our hair and skin blending with our natural oils; a perfume that can’t be replicated. Mercurial waves; the energy of our emotions similar to the tides, the constant ebb and flow. Do we float with the current or swim against it? Sweat, and tears, misting from our pores, a truly tangible sign that we answer ultimately to the call from nature.
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AWAKENING OF ONE BODY
I have been single for a long time. I have worked for myself since 2012 My last real vanilla relationship was in 2008. Yes, I’ve had a few affairs, one that actually got quite serious and threw me through a loop. Love and passion can definitely do that. I think I am still learning and growing from that relationship, actually. In fact, 90% of the time. its, me, myself and I. Before you feel sorry for me, know that my life has not been boring or unfulfilling, and I can say with a smile, that I have mastered the art of being alone and loving myself. So…if you find yourself…
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POST-BIRTHDAY THOUGHTS: LESSONS IN CHEMISTRY
Real intimacy is only possible to the degree that we can be honest about what we are doing and feeling.” Joyce Brothers My morning love note to you.
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THE ZIPPER
Here we lay. We ardently kiss and I feel your skin so warm, I mesh my mind into our connection that is developing and maturing in real time. Two people deliciously playing out our passions, so sensual, we melt. I bury my head in all that is masculine about you. It maybe be covered in fabric with the mechanisms for privacy, but my desire is to open you up, devour you and make it mine. A creation of a memory branded into my brain. There it goes – your warm, strong flesh set free. Then I can’t help myself. My mouth, my tongue and your eyes piercing into mine. The…
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MONDAY MORNING LOVE: SMALL TALK, BIG ANSWERS
““We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.” David Brooks, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen It is officially the month of July…let’s get it! My birthday is around the corner and life is wonderful. When it comes to building relationships, there is one area that we often disregard, small talk. If it is assumed that you won’t care about the answers to basic questions, how will we ever expect to get those great answers? Side by side we speak converse, even if we are facing each other. I’m with you in every syllable. If…
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MONDAY LOVE: POLISHING THE BRAIN
“It is good to rub and polish our brains against that of other.“ Michel de Montaigne When we look for things that will “next level” our abilities, we can overlook the most simple: interconnectedness. As a companion, I talk about the significance of connection in my ad copy and on my website. It sounds simple but it it takes work and a bit of bravery. The fulfillment of the physical needs the intellectual, to feel that true satisfaction contentment and pleasure. Two Heads Are Better Than One. Two heads, two bodies. An intermingling of the senses to celebrate the nature of being in this with you. Montaigne is for sure…
