self development
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BE CAREFUL OF ROOM TEMPERATURE
” I began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life. If you interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good.” Roald Dahl “Come in the water is fine.” There was a time when I heard this phrase, it was music to my ears. Then at one point in life, I deviantly fought against the notion – I’ll take freezing or scalding, please. There is a notion that as we age, our aversion to risk lessens. Comfort matters. The Why…
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SATURDAY SENTIMENT: SLICES OF US
Finding ourselves in slices. What we give and what we take. There is a eroticism to the mystery of us. The gospel of “finding yourself” perhaps is too large. An expectation too great. I’m not afraid to admit that my soul slumbers and awakens.
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HUMP DAY LOVE: WORDS TO PONDER
Last weekend we celebrated Easter and for Jewish people the end of celebrating Passover. The symbolism is not lost for those that practice faith. Sacrifice and renewal. In a world that is trying to shorten our attention spans, it is the holidays of Passover and Easter that can make us purposefully pause. Faith. Gratitude. Forgiveness. Love. We all love platitudes. How often do we “like” them on social media? It makes us feel good for the nanosecond that we engage. How many times in an average day do we try to disrupt our own habits and schedules for the good of another? It is the small not necessarily large gestures…
- AUDIO NOTES, human behavior, morning love, philosophy, PROOF OF GROWTH & CONNECTION, relationships, seduction, self development, self development
MORNING LOVE: CLOSER TO 2025
A few days closer to a new year, what are you thinking will be different? Change is hard but a transformative thing and not the cheesy way that gym commercials talk about it.
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CONFESSIONS: SECRET LAYERS
We are all onions. There are secret layers to us waiting to be peeled, and in some cases may never be. In my latest audio note, I share some thoughts on my secret layers and the alchemical effect sharing them in the right environment and with the right partner can have.
- CLIENT THEOREM, intimacy, PROOF OF GROWTH & CONNECTION, seduction, self development, sexual connection
A HUMP DAY TO YOU, US.
You are a mere mortal. Every morning you get up and engage in a routine. You work hard. Your body is a temple…most of the time. However, you know when it’s time to relax and venture into that tiny hedonistic part in you. When there is an opportunity to just enjoy life, you seize that moment, although secretly you wish there were many more of those. Yet, you are a man of control and regimen, so sacrifices are made. Oh, do you have such a vivid imagination! This is the pleasure of sacrifice. Please take me on more of those journeys. The Wanton Us. I’m not sure if you realize…
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VIRTUE SIGNAL
“The Truth Shall Set You Free.” A Biblical quote from the book of John. I love the simplicity and the purity of such words that have such intricacy to them. There is so much meat on the bone of this simple sentence. Interpretations waiting to be realized and savored. Virtue, by definition, means moral excellence or righteousness. Righteousness is altruistic. Self-righteousness is ego-driven. Yet, I would argue that the modern definition’s motivation at least, lies in the power of judgement. I believe human beings are inherently good. However, in a world of constant signaling, the wires of virtue get easily crossed. Good people make bad choices. Yes, human beings are…
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AWAKENING OF ONE BODY
I have been single for a long time. I have worked for myself since 2012 My last real vanilla relationship was in 2008. Yes, I’ve had a few affairs, one that actually got quite serious and threw me through a loop. Love and passion can definitely do that. I think I am still learning and growing from that relationship, actually. In fact, 90% of the time. its, me, myself and I. Before you feel sorry for me, know that my life has not been boring or unfulfilling, and I can say with a smile, that I have mastered the art of being alone and loving myself. So…if you find yourself…
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MONDAY MORNING LOVE: SMALL TALK, BIG ANSWERS
““We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.” David Brooks, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen It is officially the month of July…let’s get it! My birthday is around the corner and life is wonderful. When it comes to building relationships, there is one area that we often disregard, small talk. If it is assumed that you won’t care about the answers to basic questions, how will we ever expect to get those great answers? Side by side we speak converse, even if we are facing each other. I’m with you in every syllable. If…
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LOVE & LOGIC – THE THEORY OF EVERYTHING
“Remember that wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.” Paulo Coehlo It is to be said that the heart, if you listen closely, will always give you the answers to life. The questions that we ponder, that we cant surmise from logic and so let slip from our mental grasp, our heart is the oracle. Love & Logic. The Theory of Everything. Take note, none of what I write is out of naivete. On the contrary, I’ve experienced everything emotion so deeply: great love, great loss, deep pain, intense desire. There is plenty of room in our life for logic,something we revere and celebrate. We often find…
