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MORNING LOVE: A NEW MONTH, A NEW GRIND
It’s November 1. You know what this means…
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AFTER CARE: A CRITICAL PART OF INTIMACY
I recently spent time with someone who made me revisit my feelings on aftercare. While it is often just talked about in kink circles, aftercare is a necessary and critical part of any intimate situation. Listen to learn more… Update: Since the posting of this audio note, I had several wonderfully open conversations with the gentleman who inspired this post. It seems obvious, but it was quite helpful to share our concerns and feedback, which ultimately created a delicious new intimacy.
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THURSDAY MORNING LOVE: THE COMPANY WE KEEP
Recently read an amended quote from one of my favorite inspirational sayings, but it had a twist. Here is the literal quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson: It’s the destination not the journey. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance. Listen in to learn more…
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UNDERSTANDING FORGIVENESS & NOT JUDGING OURSELVES FIRST
A personal audio note…
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REAL TALK: FEELING THE BREAK OF THE HEART
“toxic” relationship it was. It’s not the “he’s doesn’t know what he’s missing…” As my cousin, a well-regarded therapist would say, “sit in your shit.” There you go. This means, like a sugar craving, you feel it deeply but don’t act. Like a sugar craving, give it 20 minutes and it shall pass. The reality is that sometimes you never quite stop feeling it. Love isn’t an emotion that is easily transferable. It isn’t easily forgotten but it can be fuel. I think its important to get to know those hard emotions, find the intimacy in them. There is a thought that if you don’t give it “your energy” that,…
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ESCORT LIFE: LIVING WITH INTEGRITY
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THE LEWINSKY MOMENT
We were enjoying the moment….teasing, toying, and playing with one another. My thigh highs were wrapped around his eyes because the best way to tease, of course, is to take away a sense. Hot and sweaty… When I was in DC last week I picked up some cigars but never had a chance to smoke them. Now was the perfect time to get creative…My mind was in a sexual spin. What came next was just awesome. One end in his wet mouth and the other between my succulent, slick lips…He played and it felt good. The Churchill was at the perfect angle and pressure to deliver several different sensations through…
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BE THE MAN EVERY WOMAN WANTS
Dating at any age isn’t easy. While the objectives change depending on our stage of life, that slight awkwardness we feel at the start, is one that always feels familiar. I have many male friends at various stages, who all echo the same sentiment – putting yourself out there with seemingly fruitless results. They may be young and never married or divorced. A wise, divorced friend of mine would always say that dating is like sales…” its all about pipeline, then identifying the best and converting them.” The Swipe Factor The world of online dating has become a game. An Algo-based behavior that prompts as little effort as possible. Swipe…
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PUSHING EMOTIONAL BOUNDARIES
Sometimes I feel v. introspective. It happens from time to time. I want to give all that I have but know that if I don’t protect myself and draw lines, who will be there to protect me? After going through a divorce, the sudden death of a lover, and evolving into a power exchange lifestyle and back again, my emotional intelligence has evolved quite a bit. As a woman of great faith, I believe in giving because it is a good thing not because I ever expect something back. This was how I was raised. Yet, I am not infallible. There are times when I feel emotionally spent. There are times when…
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MR. SALT & PEPPER
Rules were meant to be broken. I broke one of mine and when I went home with him from one of my events but it was so much fun. I couldn’t help myself. It was our second time meeting and he is irresistible in a debonaire way. The way the corners of his eyes crinkled when he smiled and laughed. The easy confidence to his stride. The way he worked the room, made everyone feel important. The night went by so fast. The cocktails and conversation, looks across the table as we chatted with others but eavesdropped on each other. The best part was our time alone.…
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