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CHAPTER 1: A SWITCH REVELATION
It’s February 7th, 2012. A week away from what Hallmark says is the most romantic day of the year. Today, it had a session with “slave” and realized its dominant side. Oh, how it loves to please its Master. Yes, in the BDSM community, there are submissives and there are slaves. What is the difference? Typically, the slave is marked in some way to show that it is the property of another. For it, well, I wasn’t overachieving about many things, but as a submissive, I wanted to show my Dominant, my “Master”, just how much it wanted to belong to him. On this day, it had an opportunity to…
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A NEW BLOG UPDATE
For your ears only.
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THE SECRET LIFE OF O- A PYSCHOSEXUAL ADVENTURE
I used pronouns with flexibility before it was “mandatory” on a LinkedIn profile. The embodiment not of an individual but of a thing, for the use and pleasure of someone else. The “it” represents that perfectly. You will notice, that I only refer to myself in the third person; “the slut” or “it.” What is written in these chapters, was the beginning of a journey that was unlike any other. Forget the cliche of “50 Shades of Grey.” This archive is an autobiographical sexual journey that delves deep into the psychosexual realms – BDSM and power exchange. It’s more than a story, it was my life for 5 years. If…
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AFTERNOON DELIGHT: SECRETS BETWEEN THE SHOULDER BLADES
The place where your fingers run, lightly scratching the place that drives me just a little crazy. You found my spot. I have a few but exploration and discovery are what matters most. This is the place where I melt, just a little. I try not to distract myself because as your hands glide over my sweet spot, my head is buried between your thighs. My body is relaxed, preparing itself for what is next and then what happens after that. There is no rush. The journey we are on is a longer and curvier road. It’s amazing when you find that ordinary, non-sexual spot that can change your body…
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LATE-NIGHT LOVE: BETWEEN THE SHOULDER BLADES
The place where your fingers run, lightly scratching the place that drives me just a little crazy. The place where I melt, just a little. I try not to distract myself because as your hands glide over my sweet spot, my head is buried between your thighs. My body is relaxed, preparing itself for what is next and then what happens after that. There is no rush. The journey we are on is a longer and curvier road. It’s amazing when you find that ordinary, non-sexual spot that can change your body and mind in an instant. You don’t try too hard. We are in flow with one another. There…
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AUDIO NOTES, inner thoughts, motivation, PROOF OF GROWTH & CONNECTION, self development, self development, Uncategorized
MORNING LOVE: A NEW MONTH, A NEW GRIND
It’s November 1. You know what this means…
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AFTER CARE: A CRITICAL PART OF INTIMACY
I recently spent time with someone who made me revisit my feelings on aftercare. While it is often just talked about in kink circles, aftercare is a necessary and critical part of any intimate situation. Listen to learn more… Update: Since the posting of this audio note, I had several wonderfully open conversations with the gentleman who inspired this post. It seems obvious, but it was quite helpful to share our concerns and feedback, which ultimately created a delicious new intimacy.
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THURSDAY MORNING LOVE: THE COMPANY WE KEEP
Recently read an amended quote from one of my favorite inspirational sayings, but it had a twist. Here is the literal quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson: It’s the destination not the journey. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance. Listen in to learn more…
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UNDERSTANDING FORGIVENESS & NOT JUDGING OURSELVES FIRST
A personal audio note…
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REAL TALK: FEELING THE BREAK OF THE HEART
“toxic” relationship it was. It’s not the “he’s doesn’t know what he’s missing…” As my cousin, a well-regarded therapist would say, “sit in your shit.” There you go. This means, like a sugar craving, you feel it deeply but don’t act. Like a sugar craving, give it 20 minutes and it shall pass. The reality is that sometimes you never quite stop feeling it. Love isn’t an emotion that is easily transferable. It isn’t easily forgotten but it can be fuel. I think its important to get to know those hard emotions, find the intimacy in them. There is a thought that if you don’t give it “your energy” that,…